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May 10 2019

Helping That Helps: Ministry Approaches That Actually Make A Difference

The Emmanuel Gospel Center is a great friend and ministry partner of UniteBoston’s. Many people in Boston and around the country have benefited from their research about churches in Boston and their systems ministry approach. Their Executive Director, Jeff Bass, joined the staff at EGC in 1991 and is a member of River of Life Church in Jamaica Plain. In the article below, Jeff Bass offers insight for Christians for engaging well in the work in our neighborhoods.


Many people have read the book, When Helping Hurts, (or a similar book to this), and I am often asked if EGC has any materials that could help people move from helping that hurts to helping that helps. In response, EGC has developed a 4-part class, based on our Living System Ministry approach, that we have taught recently at both Grace Chapel and Trinitarian Congregational Church in Wayland.  It’s been interesting taking material that we use with our staff and ministry partners and teach in seminary, and trying to effectively contextualize it for four hours of adult Sunday School. But it has been a worthwhile challenge, and it has helped me boil down some of the things EGC has been working on for years, to essential concepts that apply in every setting – missions, ministry, home and work.


So how can we be helpful helpers? It starts with accepting that even our well-intentioned helping often does hurt, or in EGC terms, that what we do can be counterproductive. Much has been written on this, and it’s very well documented (1). So we need to be careful.

The first step in being careful is “embracing your own poverty.” We each need to come from a place of humility, not superiority. It’s an eminently Biblical concept (2) that causes us to recognize our material wealth is not what defines us, and we are just like the people we seek to serve (and they are just like us), having both significant assets and deep needs that require help.

The second step in being careful is taking the time to learn. Reality is complicated. It takes time to get to know the people, organizations, or communities we hope to help. Nothing fights hurting like real understanding and trusting relationships. Working this way always takes more time, but it is always worth it in the long run.

Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. – Phil. 2:3-4

Finally, as we move from humble learning to more active engagement, the best simple principle to follow is, “Empower Others.” Do things with people, not for people. Give help that helps them do or be or solve or lead or move forward. Make them the heroes of the story.

One final note. This is not easy. Effective ministry is not “plug and play.” It takes real work, making mistakes, repentance, wrestling, stubborn grit. Embracing your own poverty, taking time to learn, and choosing to empower others need to happen over and over again. That’s OK. We serve a God of grace who walks with us and clearly calls us to keep trying.

If you or your church would like to learn more about Helping that Helps, please contact Jeff Bass, executive director, at jbass@egc.org. For further information on the Emmanuel Gospel Center visit egc.org.

1 See for example, When Helping Hurts, The Cat and the Toaster, or Toxic Charity

2 See for example Phil 2:3-11, Phil 3:3-11, and Rev. 3:15-19

Written by uniteboston · Categorized: Blog · Tagged: boston, grace chapel, home, neighborhood, uniteboston

Apr 22 2019

Pentecostal Tabernacle’s Honduras Benefit Concert

Join us for an evening of music as we celebrate God’s love for the world at our Honduras Benefit Concert! For the past six years, Pentecostal Tabernacle has partnered with World Resources Group (WRG), to send a missions team to Honduras to work with mentors who have devoted their lives to serving the youth in their communities. These trips have given us the opportunity to build relationships with the children, their families, and the dedicated Honduran mentors who serve them. This year, our missions team will depart for Honduras on July 28th, and proceeds from the concert will benefit their trip. Tickets are $10, and you must purchase one to attend this event.

Date: Saturday, May 4th 2019

Location: Pentecostal Tabernacle North Campus – 77 Columbia Street, Cambridge MA 02139

Time: 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.

Featured Artists: Nicole Schmidt, 7th Degree, Kamva, Caleb McCoy

Tickets: Purchased online at www.ptspice.org

Written by Andrew Walker · Tagged: allston, body of christ, boston, brighton, brookline, cambridge, christian, community, concert, diversity, fundraiser, gathering, glory, jamaica plain, missions, movement, music, resources, revival, transformation, worship, worship and prayer, youth

Apr 06 2019

Helping Women Find Freedom and Healing from Trauma

This month, Park Street Church is highlighting some of their members who are living out their faith in their day-to-day lives. Below, we introduce Mary Speta, member of Park Street Church and Development Director at Amirah. (Reprinted with permission)

If you’ve ever met Mary Speta, you might know that she is a self-proclaimed foodie, who loves to sing jazz, tell stories, and who hails from western New York, where they boast a higher cow population than people. She has been around Park Street Church for the last five years and is involved in the Café young adults ministry. 

What you might not know about Mary, is that she is passionate about elevating women and women’s issues both locally and globally. Because of her own story of healing, Mary has a heart for helping other women find freedom and healing from trauma. This led her to a position as the Development Director of Amirah, a multifaceted aftercare organization for survivors of domestic sex trafficking.

Amirah, from the Persian word for “princess,” has a mission to provide refuge to those seeking to break free from exploitation, offering healing in a community setting. Amirah strives to help each survivor recognize her inherent value as a person in the aftermath of being trafficked. Most women being trafficked in New England were actually born and raised here. Traffickers target and take advantage of vulnerable girls and women, often through the lens of “love.” They tell their victims they love them, act like a boyfriend, but then tell them to do this work for a while.

This happened to Jessie. She was in a vulnerable position and along came a guy who paid attention to her, showering her in affection, until one day he asked her to sell her body. This went on for years, and by the time Jessie came to Amirah, she was so mixed up about what love really was. She distrusted everyone — there was no way, in her mind, that she was going to be able to get her life back. But that’s exactly what happened as she moved into Amirah’s residence program. As the months went on, she began to see, through the staff and volunteers, that real love was not exploitive and she connected all this love back to God. One day, she said to her mentor, “I don’t want to be bought and sold anymore.” Her mentor replied, “Jessie, Jesus bought you once, and he will never sell you.” And that day, Jessie believed.

Watch this video below to hear more about Jessie’s journey, the existence of sex trafficking right here in our backyard in Boston, and how Amirah provides refuge for those seeking to break free from exploitation and heal in community on their journey toward lasting hope.

If you are interested in how you might make an impact in the lives of trafficked women in the Boston area, check out Amirah’s website. They need volunteers, as well as financial and prayer partners, in order to sustain this vital ministry.

OTHER GREAT ORGANIZATIONS FIGHTING HUMAN TRAFFICKING
There are other great Christian ministries that are fighting human trafficking here in the Greater Boston area, including:

Route One Ministry, which ministers to women exploited by the sex industry. Through building relationships with the women, they hope to be the light of Christ and provide for physical, emotional and spiritual needs.

Bags of Hope Ministries, which provides bags of hope as a practical way to minister to women in the trafficking industry. Anita, a recovery coach and mentor for Bags of Hope recently saw a woman come to faith and baptized because of their ministry. You can read this story here.

Written by uniteboston · Categorized: Blog · Tagged: boston, christian, community, jesus, unity

Feb 12 2019

Mystic Chorale sings GOSPEL 3/2 and 3/3

The Mystic Chorale, one of Greater Boston’s favorite community choruses, presents its annual Gospel concert. Led by award­-winning gospel director Jonathan Singleton, the 250­-voices­-strong chorale and 5-piece band presents two joyful and spirit-filled performances featuring a mix of music rooted in the African American gospel tradition.

This year’s exciting program includes an eclectic mix of gospel sourced from all around the world, including the Soweto Gospel Choir’s Woza Meli Wami, Irish composer Brian Houston’s So That I Can Walk In Your Way, and American Gospel composer Hezekiah Walker’s Better! The chorus will continue its celebration of Queen of Soul Aretha Franklin’s enormous contribution to gospel music by singing the inspirational Never Gonna Break My Faith.

This program of songs of love and hope is guaranteed to lift your spirits!

 

WHEN: Saturday, March 2nd at 7:30 pm and Sunday, March 3rd at 3:30 pm

WHERE: Converse Hall, Tremont Temple, 88 Tremont Street, Boston (one block from Park Street T)

TICKETS: $20 (children under 10, free) available at www.mysticchorale.org

 

Written by Andrew Walker · Tagged: beacon hill, boston, concert, gospel, music

Jan 12 2019

Reconnecting with Self-Care and Meaning after Trauma and Loss

It’s a new year – what better time than now to turn the  page and commit to improving self-care and exploring new meaning after trauma and loss?  Come and be with us on Thursday 1/17 at 6 pm at The Cory Johnson Program for Post-Traumatic Healing, Roxbury Presbyterian Church, 328 Warren St, Roxbury.

We will learn about how our spiritual, individual and collective, lives are at the center of both our desire and response for healing.

Dinner starts at 6 pm, program at 7 pm.  Child Care provided.  No cost.

 

Written by Andrew Walker · Tagged: boston, community, community transformation, healing, roxbury, trauma

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