Students! Welcome to Boston, a city of over 600 churches, where you can connect with a diverse body of Christians from all over the world.  We invite you to explore our website for opportunities to celebrate unity in the body of Christ by connecting with others through social gatherings, volunteer opportunities, and a home church. Carson Weitnauer, UniteBoston member and director of Telos Ministries, has over eight years of experience in student ministry. We asked him to share some advice as you start your student years here in Boston:

Welcome to Boston! I’d like to invite you, the hypothetical Bostonian freshman, to consider gaining the not-so-famous “freshman three” this year. I’ll explain what I mean below.

To begin, we need to recognize that your arrival in Boston offers you both challenges and opportunities. 

On the one hand, your college years are an opportunity to shed any connection to a childhood religion, forge your own path, gain power through acquiring knowledge and building social capital, and create your own preferred future.

On the other hand, as a student, you can develop a mature understanding of Jesus, humble yourself to follow His will, acquire knowledge and social capital so you can become a more empowered servant of others, and trust in God’s providence for the future.

These two paths are starkly different. The first path will be relatively easy to adopt. Study hard, party hard, build your personal brand through social media, go for the most competitive summer internships and jobs, travel the world, catch a few lucky breaks, and you’ll be set. When you get depressed or lonely, do something to relax, exercise, take a nap, and keep trying until things work out.

But think hard about this. While there’s plenty of good in this path, some of the potential downsides may include an overriding anxiety about what others think of you, relentless pressure to continuously perform at peak capacity, ongoing and costly investments to maximize your personal appearance, an underdevelopment of the necessary character traits to form a durable and happy marriage, a restless and confused spirituality, and an undercurrent of disappointment with what the world has to offer.

This is rarely mentioned, but in eight years of campus ministry, I’ve seen it a hundred times.

The second path, the way of Jesus, is definitely harder on the front end. For one, you’ll need to take the initiative to break out of your school’s bubble and make friends at a local church. Rich learning experiences await you there: as you change diapers in the nursery during Sunday worship, develop friendships with the adults in the congregation, hear gospel-centered, biblically rich sermons, participate in a Bible study, and serve the city of Boston. You need to be relationally invested in a great church home to grow spiritually, but it will take some time, energy and discipline to get connected.

Second, with an open, flexible schedule, you may struggle to find a time to be with God each day. The truth is that there’s no better source of wisdom and guidance for contemporary life than the Bible, and there’s no greater source of love and grace than God Himself.  Becoming fully human involves connecting with your Creator and Savior on a daily basis.

Third, you need a mentor, someone who is a self-forgetful servant, who is really interested in your life, your questions, your doubts, and your issues. They also need the courage and maturity to share with you from the Bible and their life experience in a way that challenges you to become mature in Christ. This may be an uncomfortable experience at times, but if you know they care about you and you respect their life, it will be a good experience.

That’s the freshman three: a church home, a daily experience of God’s love and God’s wisdom, and a spiritual mentor. Be encouraged: there are plenty of good church homes in Boston, many ways to connect with God, and dozens of godly mentors across a variety of campus ministries. We’re praying that you’ll gain all three this year.

Carson Weitnauer is the Director of Telos Ministries and loves ultimate Frisbee, board games, homemade pizza, and, most of all, his amazing wife Mo.  Carson blogs on the big questions of life at simpleapologetics.blogspot.com Carson can be reached at carson@telosboston.org and you can learn more about his church home, Church of the Cross, at www.cotcboston.org.

The Power of Connectedness

By: Mike Lloyd

There is a great deal of power in connectedness.

The power I speak of is the power of love and the power to make the world a better place—an opportunity to promote good and bring a little bit of heaven to Earth now.

The majority of life is about feeling needs and desires and then seeking to satisfy them. Abraham Maslow famously diagrammed this concept in 1943 when he published his thoughts about Man’s hierarchy of needs.

We ascend and descend the hierarchy of needs daily, whether we realize it or not, and we need the help of our communities and institutions to meet our needs. UniteBoston was created to enable needs to be met and satisfied by people and institutions within the Christian community. The power is in the linkages, the quality, and the quantity.

Needs can take many shapes and sizes. Someone may need a job, a last-minute cup of sugar, a place to get cleaned up, a pair of shoes, a bike, a meal, a wife, a husband, etc. Only the future can tell if the person you haven’t met yet will be able to help you.

Every person and institution that you are connected with increases the likelihood that your needs will be meet within your social community. It is like a web that keeps getting bigger and stronger. With each new link, the overall strength and power increases. Further, it is a win-win game, not zero-sum. Does it get better than that?

I love the concept behind UniteBoston because it encourages a more connected community, a more connected city, in hopes of unlocking and better making available this power of connection, of unity.

One of the most famous biblical examples of ideal Christian living in community is found in Acts 2: “All the believers were together and had everything in common. Selling their possessions and goods, they gave to anyone as he had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.”

It is hard to read that great passage and not feel the beautiful power of connectedness.

Mike Lloyd is the Executive Director of UniteBoston

https://uniteboston.com/the-power-of-connectedness-by-mike-lloyd-there-is/

Soccer Nights: Building Friendships from Around the World

By: Tim Fleck

Last week I had the opportunity to volunteer with Soccer Nights, a free evening soccer camp for children in Cambridge and the surrounding towns.  Soccer Nights is a partnership between the Vineyard Christian Fellowship, other local churches , the Cambridge Police Department, and an apartment complex near the field, and exists to promote athletic excellence, leadership, and community. Most importantly, it gives Christians all over Boston the chance to unite and show love to our neighbors.

Soccer is the world’s most global sport, and Soccer Nights is probably one of the most global experiences  in Boston.  I volunteered just one week last year and one week this year, and I have met children, parents, and volunteers from Morocco, Algeria, Bangladesh, Jordan, Ethiopia, Somalia, Peru, India, Brazil, Mexico, Italy, Kenya, Haiti, Canada, and Alaska.   The kids bond quickly with their teammates across boundaries of race and religion, and always get excited when a teammate scores, which shows how artificial these boundaries are.  Of course, they are also quick to bad-mouth people on other teams (which are randomly chosen hours or days earlier), which shows our natural desire to have boundaries.

Soccer Nights has meant a lot to me personally because it has opened up relationships with Christians in different churches, who often approach faith differently, interpret the Bible differently, or otherwise can contribute a fresh perspective on what it means to follow Christ.  Coaches work in pairs, and between running passing drills and trying to keep kids from wandering off, Roger and I got a chance to talk about what being a Christian meant to each of us.  When I needed to talk to someone outside my church about a tough situation in my faith last year, I met up with Roger, and he encouraged me to persevere in my faith despite the doubts and fears I had at the time.

Some of the volunteers are soccer fanatics like me, but Soccer Nights needs volunteers for all kinds of tasks.  Volunteers set up fields and sound equipment, register children, teach lessons on nutrition, distribute snacks, and play with toddlers too young for the instructional program, in addition to demonstrating soccer fundamentals.  Maybe you’re looking to make a difference in children’s lives, build bridges from the church to those outside the church, reach out to the poor, meet other Christians (and non-Christians) from different backgrounds and denominations, welcome newcomers from around the world to Massachusetts, or engage with your community.  Whatever your goal is, I hope you’ll give Soccer Nights a shot.

Soccer Nights runs 6-8:30pm at multiple sites in Greater Boston. The next sessions are July 11-15 and July 25-29. Volunteer times commitments are flexible.  For more information, call 617-252-0005 (option 2)  or visit www.soccernights.org

Tim Fleck is a UniteBoston Fan and Soccer Nights Volunteer

https://uniteboston.com/soccer-nights-building-friendships-from-around/

By Jillian Orlando

I recently had the opportunity to experience Boston churches and public schools joining together to serve the children of this city.  I was inspired by the unity and camaraderie of these two groups coming together around this shared goal.

The Circle of Promise Faith-Based Partnership is the Boston Public School initiative to seek the involvement of the local church. The school system is welcoming churches and volunteers into the schools to develop programming such as tutoring, mentoring, after school care, school supply drives, and more. This new program was kicked off with a dinner at Twelfth Baptist Church on May 23, 2011. Over 100 attendees including principals, pastors, rabbis, school social workers, and volunteers gathered together in the church basement to share a meal, learn about the initiative, and build relationships.

It was an inspiring occasion. Ideas were flying around the room as school leaders shared their needs and churches shared their desire to meet those needs. A panel of 3 principals and 3 faith leaders spoke to the group about these partnerships offering encouragement and advice. In some cases, churches from different denominations and neighborhoods joined together to serve. Out of these relationships students have been blessed through tutoring, backpack drives, and seeing the tangible love this city and Jesus have for them.

What I saw that evening reminded me of the importance of developing relationships. Throughout the Circle of Promise dinner, the importance of relationship came up over and over again and the value of facilitating relationships to foster unity. It is exciting to see individual schools welcoming individual churches, but what really hit home for me was the story of churches partnering and serving together in the name of Jesus. His plan for us to be unified increases our ability to impact and influence our city for God.

My goal as part of UniteBoston is to facilitate these real life relationships by increasing connectedness in the body of Christ. It is amazing to see how God can use us when we let down the barriers that divide us. I believe he is doing an incredible work in Boston breaking down walls and joining Christians together in this city!

I encourage our readers to interact on this topic in our forums. If you are a school looking to connect with a church for tutoring, backpack drives, or any other volunteer opportunities or needs, please visit the volunteering section of our forums. Similarly churches, if you are looking to partner with other churches in serving this city, please see our list of Church & Ministry Connections. Here you will find churches that support unity in the body of Christ to start building those connections and begin the journey of learning what God has planned for those relationships!

To learn more about the Circle of Promise visit http://www.bostonpublicschools.org/news/mayor-menino-announces-action-plan-“circle-promise”

Jillian is the UniteBoston Director of Marketing. She can be reached at jillian@uniteboston.com